Love=BDSM

One minute this person is all over you and the next minute the same person is pushing you away. And you ask yourself "WHY IS THIS EVEN HAPPENING AGAIN?" Why did you even get in this relationship? We all know how much we are risking when we get in a relationship but...

Does it worth it?

When you realize that in the relationship all the time you were thinking about "we", your partners version of "we" was him and his dick.... does that mean you have to actually explain to that person what love means? Or you can just turn the page and move on alone? 

I think love is actually a subtle version of BDSM. 

John used to tell me how much he cared about his submissives, how he loved them and respected them because thats what a Master does. But in a relationship out of bdsm....in Second Life you dont get much of that.

When do you stop being the lovely girlfriend and become being a masochist? 

Are we actually optimistic if we continue in a relationship where we are not having what we applied for? Or does listening to excuses makes us plain stupid or submissives taking the pain?