Communication is a big part of any relationship, but in Second Life it is The Must.
Talita had an amazing connection with Bryce from the moment they met at Element Club. They spent the first few days doing romantic things in lands with ridiculous sparking particles around and couple dances, but then came the sex: and it wasnt that good. Talita felt a good chat wasnt enough.
Attraction is a big part of a relationship, but when it only makes good conversations, can the relationship actually work?
What comes first, the chicken or the egg? Is sex part of communication in a relationship?
On the other hand, my friend Mike had this amazing sex chemistry with a girl in Second Life, but it didnt seem to work out of bed. He found her terribly boring and after a few months they stopped seeing eachother, which affected that girl a lot because she was actually inlove, but she never realized he found all her rp ridiculous when they werent having sex. Mike hates Roleplay.
Is it possible to find a balance in Second Life without faking the missing part in a relationship? Or the only balance you get is a friendship?
To me, finding great sex and great friendship in one person is a greek myth. Mostly, in Second Life.
Talita is still single and regrets not being with Bryce. Mike is the happiest single guy, never had sex again in SL,,,now he is all about friendship.
After ten years in Second Life I decided to write about it. How real does it get? How real are we? How involved can you be in relationships? If you have a relationship in Second Life, can you even fall for someone else in RealLife? I started to wonder how many people feel the same way and just share my experiences, maybe hoping that putting it into words will help me answer my questions...and yours.
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