Uff! I've been away for quite a while! The reason? I got married in Real Life with my SL partner!
I wanted to take the time to post about it and share our experience, that to me is a bit of a closure for this blog.
It wasnt easy, not one bit. We lived almost 8000km apart.
We really really wanted to be together from day 1 but it was so painful sometimes to realize that we couldnt actually kiss, actually hug... and that the Skype calls werent enough even if sometimes it was 24/7.
So Tyler came to my country. From America to Argentina. He was supposed to stay for 3 weeks but we couldnt do it, we couldnt be apart and go back to our SL home after actually being together. "Never Skype again!" we said. So he stayed. He stayed here in Argentina. He quit his job. We got married. My kids loved him from day one, my whole family love him too.
We still dont know whats gonna happen, but we are sure of one thing: No matter what or who tried to get in our way, our relationship only has room for 2 people and we wont let this amazing thing that we builded just break.
Our love and all the time we had to live apart gives us the courage to finally DO. Not "plan and think and see what if....". NO!
LIVE!
DO!
LOVE!!!!
We feel more alive than we ever did in our lives.
Second Life was an escape.... but we found out together that Real Life is totally worth it when you have someone to share it with.
Was I scared when we met? Hell yeah! "What if he doesnt like me??" I asked a thousand times. But the moment we saw eachother for the first time at the airport, we just felt we were meant to be. It was just right.
Thank you to those that read me, I really hope you can find that touch of Reality in Second Life that is needed to actually LIVE to the fullest. SL is just the first step.
Are you ready to give the next step?
After ten years in Second Life I decided to write about it. How real does it get? How real are we? How involved can you be in relationships? If you have a relationship in Second Life, can you even fall for someone else in RealLife? I started to wonder how many people feel the same way and just share my experiences, maybe hoping that putting it into words will help me answer my questions...and yours.
Tuesday, August 20, 2019
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