In an anonymous Escort Club in Second Life my whole idea about men changed.
"Most men come here to talk, they want to be pampered. We mostly get payed to be Girlfriends, not Dancers. They want the whole Girlfriend Experience, the sure thing: someone to love them without drama, to go around on dates with them -and they are VERY romantic-, they want the girlfriend that wont be annoying with jealousy and stuff that usually come up in a relationship"
Mare is an experienced SL Escort, she makes around L$80.000 in a lousy week. She is amazing, her social skills rock. When she told me this, I couldnt believe it.
So I started actually talking with people, starting IMs with strangers and I could see many guys told me "I'm sorry, i am not good at starting conversations, i'm always afraid of saying the wrong thing". And its not just for men, women are insecure too!
It was so sad! Some people are terrified of being judged for using the wrong words... and it seems in Second Life they wouldnt have a Second Chance.
Why some people in Second Life have to be so cruel and judgemental....?
From now on, i'm never waiting for anyone to IM me first.
And you...what are your waiting for??? Take your chances and start IMming!
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